I haven’t blogged in days. My daughter has been sick with dengue fever. I’ve been concentrating on my food orders that are overwhelming (I am not complaining). Been trying to juggle events, obligations and deadlines. But let me share. Christmas is still my favourite season and I make sure I enjoy it and don’t get caught up in the mad rush.
I grew up in a family that made Christmas a big deal. We had our tree up by the the first week of November, decorated meticulously. My cousins and I even had our own personalised tree ornament based on our personalities and favourite things (I have carried this tradition over with my kids). We would drink eggnog on the weekends and marshmallow and whipped cream topped hot chocolate, with crushed peppermint candy cane sprinkles. Candy canes were in all corners of my grandparents home which made us cousins ultra hyper since we would keep popping them into our mouths, resulting in lots of energetic laughs. Gift opening was a big deal. While the kids sat around the tree, the adults would announce really loudly whose turn it was to open their gift while we all waited in anticipation.
The adult was usually Santa Claus (who was my Lolo or an uncle). Simbang gabi was usually completed and whoever tagged along with the grandparents got a price. My Lola, who I call Nani, would set up a beautiful “belen” with a baby Jesus made of ivory we weren’t allowed to touch, but I would be around it a lot as my Lolo would make me pray w him every time we passed it. It became ingrained in my mind and heart that the true meaning of Christmas was about Jesus and simply giving thanks. I’ve gotten carried away with my Christmas memories, so let me get to the point of this post and share a few things with all of you.
Through the years, I’ve managed to devise a scheme that keeps me from feeling tired and losing sight of the true meaning of Christmas. Here are a few tips I’ve found very useful. First would be getting my gifts out by the last week of November. I find this very gratifying because I see the appreciation of even the simplest gifts. Unlike when it’s all lumped up in the few days leading to Christmas. Second, I like to cook up a storm and give what I make, making the gift more personal. It also turns out to be more economical because it’s well thought of, planned and scheduled.
I end up saving time, energy, resources and gas (from delivering strategically!) Third would be to make Christmas memories, whether you’re single or married, with kids or without kids. Plan and create traditions with family, friends, your partner and children. Looking back on Christmas memories gives us such a warm feeling that will last a lifetime. Take loads of pictures!
Here are some unique finds. Some, I’ve gotten for myself and given to friends (Pottery Barn novelties), some I’ve been given to try (turkey and Amanda Tengco’s goodies) and the others have been constant favourites (Expertcare’s soaps). The rest, I just find pretty and luxe!
This about sums it all up. Happy Holidays and remember, don’t stress!